Kate Bush sings Molly Bloom’s soliloquy…

Inspired by James Joyce’s Ulysses.

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James Joyce writes yes I said yes I will yes…

“…and O that awful deepdown torrent O and the sea the sea crimson sometimes like fire and the glorious sunsets and the figtrees in the Alameda gardens yes and all the queer little streets and pink and blue and yellow houses and the rosegardens and the jessamine and geraniums and cactuses and Gibraltar as a girl where I was a Flower of the mountain yes when I put the rose in my hair like the Andalusian girls used or shall I wear a red yes and how he kissed me under the Moorish wall and I thought well as well him as another and then I asked him with my eyes to ask again yes and then he asked me would I yes to say yes my mountain flower and first I put my arms around him yes and drew him down to me so he could feel my breasts all perfume yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.

– James Joyce – the final words of Molly Bloom’s Soliloquy, the final chapter in Ulysses

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Loudon Wainwright III sings say that you love me…

Kurt Vonnegut said something to the effect that that those three words”I love you” were the most oppressive thing you could say to anyone, because there is only one acceptable answer – “I love you too”.  

Someone has to go first…

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Hua-Ching Ni says to be gentle with love…

“When the time comes that you feel love for someone, be gentle.  Love has a delicate nature.  Never be rough with it or it will be completely destroyed.  Always distinguish the difference between love and desire.  Love gives pleasure; desire creates pressure.  Desire, loneliness, tension, and disappointment can all deteriorate the delicate nature of true love.

To love is to be gentle.  Tender love is truly beneficial in any circumstance.  If love is not given gently, it becomes stormy.  Stormy love, like stormy weather, can never last long.”

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Anais Nin talks about love and understanding…

“One always loves the person who understands you.”

– Anais Nin

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Thich Nhat Hanh says we have to understand the person we want to love…

“We really have to understand the person we want to love.  If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love.  If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love.  We must look deeply in order to see and understand the needs, aspirations, and suffering of the person we love.  This is the ground of real love.  You cannot resist loving another person when you really understand him or her.”

– Thich Nhat Hanh

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Woody Allen says love is too weak a word…

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