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Mark Epstein says intimate relationships teach us…

“Just as in formal meditation, intimate relationships teach us that the more we relate to each other as objects, the greater our disappointment. The trick, as in meditation, is to use this disappointment to change the way we relate.” – … Continue reading

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Rollo May says to love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive…

“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.” – Rollo … Continue reading

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Pema Chodron says letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all…

“Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. When there’s a big disappointment, we don’t know if that’s the end of the story. It may just be the beginning of a great adventure. Life … Continue reading

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Anais Nin says we are like sculptors, contstantly carving out of others the image we long for…

“We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.” – Anais Nin

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Tom Robbins says perhaps that is why desire causes men calamity…

“Perhaps that is why desire causes men calamity. By identifying with our desires and taking them too seriously, we not only increase our susceptibility to disappointment, we actually create a climate inhospitable to the free and easy fulfillment of those … Continue reading

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